Karachi, Pakistan
Sunday, March 9, 2008
August 2007, After wasting fifteen years in America left the states to go live in Canada, .a country where I was born, after two months got the news Mom was in the hospital went back to the states, stayed with her until she was released then came to Pakistan. I was due to settle in Canada work buy a house but it was my parents wish that I come with them to Pakistan to get married with some one I did not know, for years I avoided the topic but now seeing how both of them are heart patients I said why not, the basic rule in our Islamic culture is following the wish (farmani) not following the wish is considered (nahfarmani) which leads a man to the wrong path of life, so I put my faith in God and followed their wish blindly though being cautious of bad people, many things I noticed about the female and brought it to their attention but they did not believe me then, my first observation was on the phone in America I noticed she seemed greedy and did not mind telling a lie. When I got to Pakistan the females family received us at the airport though she was not present, drop us of then the brother of the female name Yasir took me to Mc d's where he drilled me with questions, he made his sister like a saint as if she never went out of the house, talked about future plans, mentioned MQM then dropped me off to my residence, the same week my parents had gone to her house, I did not go usually in this culture the man goes for the first but this female came to me for the first where I lived and that made me a bit suspicious, I noticed she acted very different around certain individuals then would change her personality around others including myself , I figured it is not a big deal, I also noticed she behaved very religious and was walked very slow with precision, I noticed she was like a robot in front of her family any way I requested to talk to her along e but was refused, I wanted to get to know her even if it mint for an hour in coffee shop or in the living room but they she said her grand mother does not allow it is not in her culture, now this grand mother the evil woman half her foots on the grave yet she is very clever woman had deceived my parents in America by calling her family where my mother was visiting and sparking the conversation about the female then getting her son Saqib to call my father and say he is handing out sweets before any talks begun as if some contract has been made before the procedures anyway my parents got hustled in, now back to the female she said her grand mother does not allow it, then another time they as in her mother father brother came and we left to go eat ice cream when we got back I wanted to have a chat with her alone in front of everyone they can see but I wanted to know how she was in her head her brother kept sending these two spoiled brats one named kudija the other named Maryum so these two girls kept knocking on the window I said give me five minutes that's when I noticed these people are crazy they don't listen very stubborn ok we went up and sat in the living room I told her strait up look what I say something to some one in your family and we don't get along or what if the elders do not get along or what if our heads don't meet then I asked her does she want to do this meaning does she have a lover, is she being forced by her parents I asked her if she wants to else where all these question by God I asked her clearly in Urdu and in English just in case, matter of fact I even mention putting in writing because look I told it is very possible we do not know each other since we have brought together by elders it best that we if our personalities meet incase of ending something so big because imp afraid of God and this is not something to play with she is an adult she responds by saying she can adjust anywhere, she knows those that do not maintain relationship are bad females and she kept going on insulting those that make it then brake it, I mean she is a joke a total hypocrite, she said whether we get along or not we have to maintain it because seven skies clash with each other, God does not anger but in this situation he gets very angry, the list goes on. I spoke to my parent explaining my what I had observed, I noticed her mother dresses like the female's sister, that this female is not right, she seems to put on a personality and changes according to her surrounding even around kids such as Kudija and Maryum claiming they like to spread gossip though we were just a simple conversation nothing more, her whole family seems greedy, I was told that it is all in my head, do not think about it so I didn't I followed instruction knowing very well these people were not right for us and they seemed very jelouse of Kashmiri Punjabi, the tears in my eyes dropping as I spoke numerous times, thinking my goodness they do not believe me and one thing that every one knows about me is I am very honest person that is built in my character as youth until now, any way these people turned out to be crooks, live in some ghetto of Gulshan, her father is broke, this female has lengthy history with other dudes and with in the first week she ended it, it is total waste of time and one's trust, I do not trust Pakistan these people blood sucker, surly not all are the same built but what is fascinating is to see people that are so intoned with some political group regardless they would hustle their own, My father for example he is Urdu, his family was part of all those that migrated from India at the time of the partition. Despite the fact he was part of the Urdu population of this country neither he nor anyone in his family ever joined this group called MQM
Nor do they keep any affiliation because only calls citizens thieves, robbers, hustlers and thugs had joined this political up and make this group an issue it is the female and her family that has made it an issue always referring to this political group bragging about their ties, making indirect threats, as if it scares me when it dose I only fear God not Maturwa (Hindustani) Qomi (race) Movement, it is weird in a way they show they are very much for their people yet they rob and steal from their look what this female and her family did, they saw a well established and his family good people educated and targeted him, played him used him and he is left with a broken heart me personally I know better to trust any Hindustori they posses the power of unity but in reality they bad people, the scum of the society had we known who they were we would never have entertained them this was only for religious purpose that turned out to be total lie, this was for family values that turned out to be cultureless people with no understating of their own religion country rules and standards I mean goodness these people broke every rule in the book, that is why they are all crooks. I told my parents look I pray to God he saves me from two things one Satan's wrath and two a Mohajir female because they both are the same thing.
