The Monk and Me

Trip Start Oct 23, 2006
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Trip End May 08, 2007


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Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Before coming to Thailand, I was suspicious of it. I felt like every traveller I'd met had already been to Thailand and loved it. How could every single person have a wonderful time there? I came with reservations, but upon exploring the city of Khorat, I discovered that I love Thailand too.
Khorat had a lot in common with other cities I've loved (Da Nang in Vietnam and Pingxiang in China, for instance) where it is a large enough city to house everything I could want and more, but there are no other travellers and certainly no tourists. The local people were incredibly friendly and loved to chat. Prices were low. Food was delicious.
Jon and I found a hotel on Khorat's main drag. It was spartan, but comfortable and well priced. We were close to the night bazaar and the big local market. I've been to a lot (and I mean a lot) of markets so far in my travels. The market in Khorat has been the largest and most complete market I've been to. It also has some of the most delicious and cheap food. And the fruit... you get the idea. I've been eating for less than a dollar per meal and constantly drinking fresh fruit smoothies. This is the kind of regular eating I could get used to.
It's startling to come from the poverty of Cambodia and find myself suddenly immersed in a food culture. I'm not the only one enjoying the food here. Just walking around town, I see most locals either eating, snacking, shopping for food, etc. And I've heard a statistic that around 30-40% of Thai teenagers are obese. From what I've seen, I can believe that.
But food isn't the only thing Thais love. They also love their king. I must admit, I kinda like him too. While Cambodia was the first Kingdom I've been to, Thailand is the first that's felt like a kingdom. The king's portrait is everywhere: on the money, on billboards, buildings, roadsigns, everywhere. And he has his own flag which is always flown in conjunction with the Thai flag. The king's flag is yellow with a crest signifying the 60 years of his reign, so far.
Also yellow and with the king's crest are shirts. Polo shirts especially, but also t-shirts, bowling shirts, soccer jerseys, jackets... they blanket the landscape. All locals wear them, but especially on Mondays because the king was born on a Monday. It's odd. It's very Thai. I love it.
On our second day, Jon and I did something we'd only done 5 times before. We met back up with Andreanne! Yes, she's really turned into a major facet of these travels, and with good reason. She's not only a relaxed and experienced traveller, but she actually gets most of my jokes. Succinctly: she's not Jon. (j/k). But once again we had a great time. Andreanne had just finished doing a bunch of scuba diving off of Ko Tao (also in Thailand). She's grown unenthusiastic about Thailand, having been here several times. Finally someone who isn't loving Thailand! But when she had spent a little time in Khorat, her love was back. Especially after she saw the market. 
Now back to me. I continued to find more about Khorat to my liking. I'd wake up well before Jon (which isn't too hard since he likes to sleep 'til noon) and go running. That coupled with the good food; I've been feeling really healthy thanks to Khorat. And for entertainment: break dancing. A huge group of locals comes to a small amphitheater every night to break dance. Many of them are impressive. I included a video of one guy.
Besides watching break dancers, the three of us shopped, ate, drank, bowled, played pool on the world's smallest pool tables, and all around had a wonderful time for a few days. On our last day we decided to get a little cultural again. There are a few Wats (temples) in the area, and we decided to see the largest one. We walked there, though Andreanne's map was misleading and it took us over an hour. But it was worth it. The buildings were brand new and beautiful. We were killing time until 5 o'clock anyway, so we decided to all sit for a spell and read.
As I delved deeper into Mary Shelley, a monk came sweeping up the walkway. He struck up a conversation with us because Andreanne was reading The Da Vinci Code. Then he took my book out of my hands, looked over its cover, and said "Frankenstein.... didn't De Niro make a version of that?" In my head all I could think was "Yes he did, Mr. Coolest Monk Ever!"
After briefly conversing, the monk (whose name is Phra Annope Arginchono. so I'll just keep calling him 'the monk') invited us back to his Monk Hut. What was initially going to be a standard temple visitation turned into an in-depth meeting with a Buddhist monk. We discussed, among other things, religion. Especially Buddhism, and especially the role Buddhism plays in the everyday lives of Thai people.
I won't bore you with the details. That is to say: I doubt I could convey the gravity of the time on that monk's porch. He viewed life with such understanding, though you you could still sense something bittersweet, even cynical, in his demeanor. It made him so much more human, more real. Apparently I had had preconceptions about Buddhist monks because this man surprised me. And he helped me begin to think again.
I'd allowed the beauty of Angkor and the simplicity of Khorat to lull me into a simple, mindless series of actions. Phra Annope Arginchono helped to shake me out of my reverie. Unfortunately, he woke me as it was time to see a less appealing side of Thailand: we left for Bangkok the next morning.
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machayaki
machayaki on

monktastic
that is so cool that you got to sit and chat with a monk about worldly things and religion. Man...that is very lucky. Thailand sounds wonderful so far!

~alexis

hbomb1
hbomb1 on

Sports
Your other friend stole my title of Monktastic. When we get back, you guys are going to be so good at pool and bowling. Is that all you guys do. Well drink I guess. Hopefully they play pool overthere too so when we get back and play billards again, I may actually have a shot. Let me tell you Aussie pool sucks. It's hard.

parents2
parents2 on

Buddhist Proverb
'It's not the size of the balls, or the table, it's how you play the game.'
Speaking of which, starting out with a strike in bowling is a great way to play that game.
But where's the video of you or Jon breakdancing? When in Thailand...
And speaking of the 80's, those mustaches........

sarahlevine
sarahlevine on

not gonna talk about bowling or monks
because its been done to DEATH -- thanks a lot other posters. SMOOTHIES are the new bowling. and monks. So, mike, glad to hear you're lovin the smoothies. yep. good times.(by the way, buddy, i have always been funny, you just must have had your head up your

drowland
drowland on

cha cha lives
I don't like being the one to tell you but in the picture of you and Jon at the tiny pool table -- you look just alike. Perhaps it's all the time you have spent together. just an observation. Question: did you tell 'the Monk' that the Robert DeNiro version of Frankenstein was really bad. hope all is well with you both. and yes, cha cha does live. deb

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